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Good Morning Friends,
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today is Monday February 1, 2010
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I am actually in one of those philosophical moods this morning friends. I don't know what the cause of these things are, maybe it is just the kind of dreams I had the night before or even the type of food that I consumed. Who knows or cares anyway. All I can tell you is that my mind is working again, working on those things which interest me the most. And, I guess those things are philosophically-oriented. That is just the kind of person I am. I like to get to the bottom of things and try and figure things out, from a human perspective that is.
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So, the next time you are with a friend or acquaintance think about what you say to that person when you are experiencing a moment of self interest. If you have no clue whatsoever what I am trying to say here then I would categorize you as an insensitive person or one who lacks some kind of social conscience or even a basic human life skills education. I guess that is what I am really trying to say. So, please be aware that people have feelings and emotions and what you say or do in their presence can have great consequences whether you realize it or not. Be sensitive to those around you. Not everyone has the same experiences as you and some people, as I have I hinted above, are put to a disadvantage for any number of reasons and in any number of areas. I think even if you understand what I am saying here then you are well on your way to becoming a real thinking, sensitive human being. So, have a nice day and try to be nice to your fellow man if you can. They will appreciate your behavior let me assure you .
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I love these little videos that I get in my mailbox almost everyday from Brasschecktv. Here is a very moving speech from a war veteran. He is clearly against war and what it means:
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